I just got out of a two year relationship with a girl who was super needy and unstable. It got to the point where every time I walked in the door she "wanted to talk" about something or other. The topics would range from how my day was to endless questions about what I wanted from the store. It also got to the point where she was butting into all my business, asking me questions about what my mother called to talk about or trying to pry into my schedule so she could schedule a dinner together or a night out with friends. I couldn't take it anymore, I felt constantly interrogated and claustrophobic. I don't honestly feel like two people have to talk all of the time to maintain a relationship. I get, you know, asking the other person if they want to have sex, but I don't get that person saying "no". Why would they? Would that be because you are a bad lover or do you think maybe that person is seeing someone else on the side? Do you think if they said sex wasn't the reason they were leaving that they could be lying because really what else could it have been? Message me if you have some advice because I'm really hurting inside and trying to cover it up with porn and corn dogs.
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